The Concept of Women and How to Take Her into Your Life
"No woman wakes up saying “God, I hope I don’t get swept off my feet today”,
A friend of mine came today to Kiumeni.com Headquarters, complaining he has problems with women, he is so tired being single, he is meeting girls but it’s just girls are playing hard like mouse to catch, I came into realization there might be many of his kind out there, I decided I would do a post on this, let’screate a scenario, you have approached a girl and gives a dry answer, in all the reason she might give you when you ask her out, she might say “This is really bad time for me” or something like “I just need some space”, or my personal favorite “I’m really into my career right now, I don’t have time”, would you believe that?, I bet she doesn’t believe it either, you know why?
Because she is lying to you, it’s not a bad time for her, she doesn’t need any space and most of all she might be into her carrier, not in ways she is putting herself into, but what she is real saying is “Uh.. Get away from me right now” or possibly she might be saying “try harder stupid”.
Of course she is going to lie to you, she is nice person and she doesn’t want to hurt your feelings, what else is she going to say, she doesn’t even know you yet.
Luckily the fact that, just like the rest of us even a beautiful women doesn’t know what she wants until she sees it, you need to open her eyes and let her sees you, sees the funny part of you, that spontaneously part that makes you fun to be around with.
No matter what, no matter when, no matter who. Any man has a chance to sweep any woman off her feet, you just need the right broom to do so and that is the basic principle.
Women can see through a man, they can know you’re a lying man by just listening to you, that where many of all of your rejection comes from, be honest, be real.
You cannot use what you don’t have, so don’t pretend. If you’re a shy guy, be shy and use it to your advantage, if you’re out going, be out going and do so with style. She might not want the whole truth but she does want the real you, she may not want to see it all at once but she does want to see it.
Use your confidence, get to know her and let her know you a bit, make sure you don’t give all the information away that will take that excitement of her knowing you a bit at a time, make her open you like a book one page at a time, and that’s where you will rise her interest to you like a rocket and it will be so interesting to her.
Ask her out, the chance is she might agree to go out with you, and when she does. Whether or not she likes you just remember to be your own self.
When you’re wondering what to say or how you look or whether or not she likes you, she is already out with you!, that means she made a plan when she could have just blown you off, and this still means it’s no longer your job to try to make her like you but it’s your job to make her enjoy your company and make her enjoy every bit of her time with you.
Here are the basics of kiumeni.com, when you talk to her listen, focus, concentrate to what she is saying and respond, women respond when you’re responding to them. Don’t ever look at her mouth and boobs when she is talking, she might think your there for what’s in between her legs, make eye contact and don’t make it awkward.
Eye contact reflects confidence and it’s also sexy, listen and respond. When it’s time to talk, you will have something to talk about from her talks, ask her about herself, women like talking about themselves.
From there its date number 2, and it will all be love from here onwards.
This Article is a Guest post from - Luca John from Kiumeni.com
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